New Season, New You?

For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not sit down first and count the cost, whether he has enough to finish it— Luke 14:28

The new year is upon us and once again we have started to hear all of the usual phrases such as "finish strong," "new year, new me," "out with the old, in with the new," "I'm ready for a fresh start," and the like. But how many of these phrases are merely declarations with no action plans in sight? They all sound really positive and hopeful, but where are the preparations and strategies needed to make these dreams a reality?

So many people are hoping for a fresh start in the new year financially, physically, professionally, relationally, spiritually, etc. just like they did last year. But I am afraid that the same lack of preparation will bring in the same lack of results. We're praying and declaring, but who is actually preparing and positioning themselves for this new beginning of which they speak?

We often like to quote the verse "write the vision and make it plain," (Habakkuk 2:2) but then we stop there. We either never really write the vision, or we make a list of ideas and never develop strategies and goals to accomplish them. For some of us who actually write the vision, goals, and strategies, we run out of steam 1-3 months into our race. We simply underestimated the amount of work, resources, and endurance we would need for the journey, and usually end up giving up before achieving the new life we so proudly boasted about at the beginning of the year. 

I know this might sound a little tough, but I want you to live your best life in the next year. I want you to position yourself to achieve the desires of your heart. No more naming and claiming it. No more posting by faith, slacking behind the scenes. If you're going to obtain the promises that you're praying for, you must plan and prepare for them. Like the main verse says, who builds a tower without first considering the cost? This "new" whatever you're claiming and proclaiming, is going to cost you something. Before the month is over, I want you to do a couple of things...

1. Evaluate what went well, what went wrong, what you accomplished, what you left unfinished, what you lost, and what you gained this year. Yes, it really does take all of that. If you don't evaluate how you got to where you are, how will you know what adjustments to make?

2. Write down what you want your life to look like at the end of next year. Include relational, physical, financial, professional, travel, networking, spiritual goals, etc. in detail. Don't just say you want to make more money, say you want a $10k salary increase, for instance. It must be quantifiable and specific (think SMART goals).

3. For all of your goals listed, write down what it's going to take for you to accomplish those goals. It could be making 1 new connection per month, or getting a professional license, or creating a new eating and exercise plan, spending only 2 hours a day on social media (most of us could use that!), end a relationship, or whatever pertains to you. Again, you must be specific, and you must count the cost!

4. Assign dates to every goal that you have created. I love having so many features on my smartphone, but there is just something about having a old school planner to write down all of my goals and track my progress. I recommend that you get one, so that you can hold yourself accountable, and make adjustments where necessary. 

5. Pick somebody that you trust to share your goals with. Plan to meet with that person monthly or quarterly to discuss your progress, and theirs too. You much more likely to be successful when you have an accountability partner. This is not the time to hide behind your own dreams, play the introvert card, etc. That could be why you are not farther along that you already are. You are simply too isolated and private. 

6. Pray for endurance. Listen no matter how things look on paper, in your mind, dreams, etc., we all know that life happens. But that does not give us an excuse to quit. That simply means, we know the journey will not be perfect when we set out. When we get knocked down, we get back up, when we get tired, we rest and then keep going, when we lose, we focus on the next win, and so on and so forth. You owe it to yourself to live your best life, and you are going to need the strength and endurance to get to the finish line. 

I'll stop there. I have given you more than enough to consider and to do. I know there will be those of you who simply read this, and keep right on going with your regularly scheduled programming. I will not be surprised if this time next year, your story has barely changed. Then there will be others of you who are simply tired of hoping, wishing, and dreaming, and will actually put in the work and effort to make your life different. And the end of the day, it really is only up to you. So what will you choose? Another new year, but the same you? Or will you grab the bull by the horns this time, put your faith to work, put your dreams on paper, put your goals and strategies in place, and go after everything you've hoped for? It's already in you, it's time to get out.

I hope you have the most productive week ever!


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